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We don’t outgrow ADHD, we simply change with it. Join hosts Jami and Justin as we explore the intersection of ADHD and seniors.

Episode 38 – Alice Reiter Feld: Schpilkas in the Touchas

In this episode of Grandma Has ADHD, host Jami Shapiro talks about ADHD in seniors and the important connection between ADHD and elder law planning. She covers how ADHD affects organization, task initiation, and time management. Jami introduces guest Alice Reiter Feld, a board-certified elder law attorney, certified family mediator, and ADHD coach.

Alice shares her personal ADHD story. She was diagnosed in her late 40s. She also discusses her career in elder law, emphasizing the importance of planning and communication within family dynamics. Together, they explore common ADHD symptoms in older adults, coping strategies, and the role of community support.

Jami highlights practical tips for managing ADHD. These include setting reminders, embracing unique challenges, and understanding strengths and executive function skills. The episode stresses that ADHD has no age limit. It also advocates building a supportive community for those affected.

What you’ll learn in this episode:

[00:01:25] Meet Alice Reiter Feld: A Multifaceted Professional
[00:02:37] Alice’s ADHD Journey
[00:04:34] Understanding ADHD in Women Over 50
[00:07:54] Elder Law and Family Dynamics
[00:08:47] Rejection Sensitivity and ADHD
[00:09:32] The Importance of Family Mediation
[00:12:55] Would You Turn Off Your ADHD?
[00:16:22] Advice for Those Newly Diagnosed with ADHD
[00:19:22] Understanding ADHD: Personal Insights
[00:20:49] Setting Up for Success: Daily Routines
[00:22:36] Elder Law and ADHD: A Unique Perspective
[00:24:07] Planning for the Future: Elder Law Advice
[00:25:01] Swedish Death Cleaning: A Personal Take
[00:27:17] ADHD Tools and Strategies
[00:30:10] Embracing ADHD: Final Thoughts

Resources Mentioned:

  • Law Offices Alice Reiter Feld – Elder law services, including estate planning, long-term care, Medicaid, and family mediation.
  • alicetmrf@gmail.com – Board-certified elder law attorney, certified family mediator (elder mediation focus), certified ADHD coach.
  • “Tequila Box” – Jami’s humorous take on Swedish Death Cleaning: leaving something fun behind for curious snoopers.