
Episode 2: Boredom is Our Kryptonite
“Welcome back to Grandma Has ADHD! In this second part of our inaugural episode, hosts Jami Shapiro and Justin Shepherd dive deeper into the fascinating
In this honest and empowering episode, host Jami Shapiro sits down with ADHD coach Christine Kotik for a conversation centered on something many rarely talk about—ADHD help after retirement. Christine shares her late diagnosis story, how being a high-achieving student masked her symptoms, and why it took until her 40s to finally connect the dots.
Jami and Christine explore how ADHD often hides behind structure—like school, work, and parenting—and how retirement can unexpectedly uncover long-standing struggles. From clients who “held it all together” during their working years to those feeling overwhelmed in their new, unstructured lives, Christine brings real stories and relatable insights.
They dive into time blindness, procrastination, perfectionism, and the emotional impact of losing daily routines. More importantly, they offer practical ADHD help after retirement: strategies like positive self-talk, gentle routines, body movement, and bite-sized goals that meet you where you are.
If you’re over 50 and feeling stuck, frustrated, or simply wondering, “Why is this so hard now?”—this episode will help you feel seen and supported.
Retirement can feel like freedom—but for those with ADHD, it can also feel disorienting. Christine shares why this phase often brings hidden ADHD symptoms to the surface and how creating new routines can be a powerful form of self-care.
Whether it’s picking the wrong Tupperware (yep, that came up!) or underestimating how long a project will take, time blindness is real. Christine explains why these daily struggles aren’t about laziness—they’re about how ADHD brains perceive time, decisions, and expectations.
From setting micro-goals to moving your body for dopamine, Christine and Jami break down simple, compassionate tools for aging with ADHD. The biggest takeaway? It’s never too late to understand yourself better—and there’s no shame in getting support that honors how your brain works.
ADHD doesn’t disappear with age—it just shows up differently. This episode is a reminder that your struggles are valid, your brain isn’t broken, and support is available no matter your stage in life. If you’re ready to shift from shame to self-understanding, Christine’s story will inspire you to start.

“Welcome back to Grandma Has ADHD! In this second part of our inaugural episode, hosts Jami Shapiro and Justin Shepherd dive deeper into the fascinating

“Welcome to Part 1 of the Grandma Has ADHD podcast, hosted by Jami Shapiro and Justin Shepherd. In this inaugural episode, we kick things off

The “OG Original Grandma” describes her life with Jami and Justin since discovering like her daughter and grandchild, she too shared the hereditary trait of ADHD.
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